How to Tell a Dementia Patient They Are Moving to Assisted Living

Informing someone with dementia about the process of living in a unit that provides minimal care to them requires sensitivity, patience, and meticulous planning. These are some simple suggestions to guide you through the oral session:

1. Choose the Right Time and Place

• • chose a time that is peaceful and still

• • Select a private, familiar place of little or no interruption

2. Keep It Simple

• • Straightforward, simple language is the way to go

• • Do not try to explain the situation separately since it will be impossible for the victim

3. Be Positive and Reassuring

• • Tell of the positive aspects of the new living conditions to divert their mind from the negatives

• • Underscore the security, relaxation, and recreational activities that are provided

4. Listen and Validate Feelings

• • Let the person express what they think and feel

• • Tell them that you understand and don’t just ignore them

5. Involve Them in the Process

• • If it could be done include them in the decision-making conversation

• • Discuss which personal items they could bring

6. Use Visual Aids

• • Let them have a look at the pictures or brochures showing the facility

• • If it can be done, take a tour of the facility with your parent before the move

7. Repeat Information as Needed

• • Possibly be ready to have the conversation many times

• • Stay calm and cautious with your point of view

8. Seek Support

• • Get a close family member or friend involved in your decision-making process

• • Doctors can give you the correct prescription after you consult them

Every victim of dementia needs specific care, this, therefore, calls for personalized handling, according to their needs and character.